For Families
Running a family meeting about care
How siblings and family members can make care decisions together, with less conflict.
- Invite everyone who will help or decide, in person or by video
- Share facts first: what the doctor said, what has happened, what it costs
- Ask what your loved one wants; include them if possible
- Divide roles: decision-maker, finances, visits, paperwork, the house
- Agree on next steps and a date to check in
- Write it down and share notes with everyone
- If you are stuck, a geriatric care manager, social worker or mediator can help
Decisions made: ____________________________________________
Decisions made: ____________________________________________
Decisions made: ____________________________________________
Who does what: ____________________________________________
Who does what: ____________________________________________
Who does what: ____________________________________________
General information only, not medical, legal or financial advice. Programs and amounts change; confirm with the official source or a qualified professional.